Traditional Team Bonding

Apparently there are spoilers in the summary, although I haven't seen Iron Man 3 and only saw a crappy youtube recording of a 2 minute trailer which means what I guessed or invented from those 2 minutes is the only 'real' Iron Man 3 content in this fic.So look further at your own risk. (Even if I'm not sure if any of this stuff is in the movie or not. Does that make it spoilers, or can I call it coincidence and tell you to suck it up and watch the trailer since this isn't based on the actual movie?)   When The Mandarin destroys Tony’s home none of the other Avengers are even in the same state. These are their reactions to the attack and Tony being missing in action, assumed dead, his lab and life’s work gone. Challenge/Prompt Fic!